Good Men... I know they're out there

As a single mom I am always on the lookout for good men. Not to date necessarily, but just to recognize as a good man. Good husbands and fathers specifically.

I read a blog faithfully, as I've mentioned many times before. He is a dad who is all about raising his son to the best of his abilities. He's certainly not perfect, and I'm not saying he is without flaws, but he puts himself out there and leads by example and TREASURES his child!

I watch a vlog on YouTube about a family from the state I call home. The family consists of Mom, dad, and 4 kids. No, they're not perfect, he's not perfect, but their life fits into their family perfection plan. On camera, which is alot of their life, he's loving and fun and attentive. He not just loves his wife, but is IN love with his life. He wants to raise their kids and give them an opportunity to see him succeed!

Both men, are following their dreams. Both, took a shot and decided to blog and vlog and see if any success amounted from it. Both are devoted to their kids, and the one married is very devoted to his wife.

What happened to men like that? Why are they so hard to find? Why do so many men take vows they don't take seriously and make kids who they later just want to throw away?

WOMEN DO IT TOO! But, I'm a woman and men just seem to do it more often.

My daughter wants a dad. That has been her wish since she was 4. Every birthday and every Christmas, she wants a dad. I don't want a relationship JUST because my kid wants a dad, I want a loving marriage that benefits all involved. Since I don't see that happening anytime soon, I'm content to stay single. I fear though, that my daughter is missing someone vitally important in her life simply because it is so easy to be a dead beat parent.

My best friend would make a wonderful husband and father someday so I chalk him up to the good guys too... Someday some woman is going to find a loving, loyal, Christian man in my best friend.

So that makes 3. So,to Jeremy (http://lifeandtreasure.blogspot.com/), Shay Carl (http://www.youtube.com/shaytards), and Danoah (http://www.danoah.com) thanks for being the good guys! Also, my fellow bloggers husband Mr. Amazing can join the group. If it weren't for them, my faith in love, family and relationships would be a far cry from where it is...